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Post by babyfaith18 on May 27, 2006 15:02:58 GMT -5
Okay I usually dont have to ask people on this but you know people do need help from time to time
Me and this boy Ive known since 5th grade (im in 8th now) have gotten ALOT closer than before, because I first hated him when I met him. My cousin liked him the moment she saw him (Shes boy crazy) He and her have been going out since maybe last year (he went with other girls the first two years But now I think that he likes me, I mean it seemed that way since 6th grade, but he does go out with my cousin, Im not sure if he does that just because were close or because he really does like me, We took a picture togather on tuesday and everybody says we make a good couple (better than him and my cousin)
But if he does ever break up with my cousin and ask me out should I say yes?? I'm almost postive I like him, but Hes my friend, so it would be wierd dating him and all, plus I know for sure my former best friend liked him, and I think she still does, plus I would have to deal with My cousin, former best friend, and all the of my cousins best friends calling me a very *friendly* person (which doesnt bother, Id just not rather deal with it) but on the other hand, alot of people would support me Im just REALLY confused >.<
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Post by silversparrow04 on Jun 7, 2006 22:01:04 GMT -5
Well if he breaks up with you he'll be your cousin's ex and with that will come consequences and if your friend does like him then you will have to deal with problems. But don't make your decision based on other people its your life and your choice i know that sounds selfish but you will have to deal with your decision.
What's more important this guy or your relationship with your cousin and your best firend?
That's what you have to ask yourself. Just whatever you choose you'll have to deal with it.
I was in this situation but I didn't know my bestfriend had feelings for the guy she never told me and the way she acted i never would have figured it out but when she found out i was dating him she got real hurt and that caused tons of problems things are ok now but it took a long time.
So whatever you choose be prepared for what happens, good luck.
Sandy
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Post by babyfaith18 on Jun 15, 2006 2:48:05 GMT -5
Hmm Straight foward XD You do have lot of points, and since my friend has done some bad things to me, I think she might take it as pay back, But Im not sure....
Even so I wouldnt want to break the friendship with him... I guess Ill have to make my choice if the moment ever comes
Thanks Sandy ^_^
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Post by silversparrow04 on Jun 17, 2006 18:59:05 GMT -5
You welcome hun any time ^_^ *hugs*
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